Childhood Cancer Survivors
Marriage/Life Partnerships
Marriage (or a lifetime commitment) is one of life’s major events. But for survivors of childhood cancer, making a life-long commitment may take on even greater meaning. A lingering fear of recurrence makes some survivors hesitant to link their future to another. Coming to terms with uncertainty, however, allows you to acknowledge you have a future that includes love and companionship.
Some young adults rush into relationships while they are feeling vulnerable and uncertain of who they are or what they want. Others feel that having cancer gave them a maturity that helped them find a partner who shares their values.
Fertility
A big concern of some childhood cancer survivors is whether they will be able to have healthy children. Evidence indicates that cancer survivors are not at greater risk of having children with disabilities or cancer when compared with those who never had cancer (see the “Health of offspring” section later in this chapter). The vast majority of survivors remain fertile, and many have one or more healthy children. In some cases, however, the treatment used to save lives takes away the ability to create new life. This is an especially poignant and difficult loss. Health care providers of adolescent and young adult survivors should initiate discussions regarding the possibilities of infertility, options for fertility preservation, and suggest fertility counseling when appropriate.
The conversations that my husband and I had while dating were some of the most difficult ever. Fertility was probably one of the biggest conversations we had. It was terrifying, but he said it didn’t change how he felt about me. He never cared. It didn’t make a difference for him. He loved me for me, and that’s all I wanted. There were many ways to grow a family. We did try IVF and it failed, but we then got pregnant naturally.
Those most likely to be infertile or have impaired fertility are:
Survivors who had high doses of alkylators—cyclophosphamide, carmustine (BCNU), lomustine (CCNU), busulfan, melphalan, ifosfamide—and/or total body radiation
Male children and teens who had direct radiation to their testes
Female children and teens who had direct radiation to their ovaries
Children treated before puberty tend to have fewer fertility problems than those treated after puberty, and girls usually are less affected by treatment than boys. For more information about the effects of radiation and chemotherapy on fertility, see Chapter 10, Hormone-Producing Glands.
In addition to the treatments listed above, many other factors affect the nature and degree of fertility. These include the type of cancer, its location, the treatment, gender of the survivor, and age at diagnosis. Physical and psychological late effects also impact the desire and ability to have children.
Fertility is affected if female survivors have an early menopause. Normally, fertility tends to decrease when women are in their mid-30s. In some women treated for cancer, this decrease in fertility can occur much earlier.
Those most at risk for early menopause are:
Adolescent girls treated after puberty.
Female children or teens treated with both cyclophosphamide or other ovarian toxic drugs (ifosfamide, BCNU, or the combinations of medicines called MOPP and COPP) and radiation below the diaphragm.
Girls who had an early puberty due to cranial radiation.
If you are at risk for early menopause, talk with your healthcare provider about family planning. You may be fertile for fewer years because of your treatments. If your periods become irregular or stop completely, see your gynecologist. Fertility can decline even with regular periods, so survivors at risk of early menopause should not rely on their periods as evidence of fertility––they need to have hormone levels monitored by their healthcare provider. Survivors who experience early menopause should get routine medical care to check for osteoporosis (thinning bones) and heart disease. These medical issues are covered in Chapter 10, Hormone-Producing Glands, and psychological issues are discussed in Chapter 2, Emotions.
There may be factors other than physical problems that affect childbearing. Some women worry that pregnancy may be risky because of their treatment for cancer—a true medical concern for those who had certain treatments, such as pelvic radiation. Others fear they may pass on cancer to their children, a fear that is, in most cases, unfounded. Yet other survivors are concerned about relapse or secondary cancers and may hesitate to bring a child into the world whom they might not be able to parent into adulthood.
Some survivors who are told they are infertile from their treatments are surprised to find out that they or their partners are unexpectedly pregnant. Even if it is likely that you are infertile from treatment, it is best to use birth control if you do not desire children.
Discussions regarding infertility should be initiated at the time of diagnosis and be ongoing throughout the course of treatment and survivorship. Some adult survivors were never told or do not recall hearing that infertility was a potential consequence of treatment for their cancer. Prior to the early 1970s, many parents were advised not to discuss the cancer with their children. Young children knew they were sick, and when treatment was complete, the family acted as if the cancer had never invaded their lives. Many young adults do not learn that their ability to have children may have been compromised or destroyed until they have spent several emotional and expensive years trying. Learning the truth can unleash overwhelming feelings of anger and devastation. Survivors who were told of their probable infertility have varying feelings, and these may shift over time. Counseling from an expert in grief and loss can be of immense help to those struggling with these strong feelings.
Support and empathy from family and friends may not occur if you are infertile. Leslie Schover, in her article, Sexuality and Fertility After Cancer, writes:
The most profound loss is giving up the dream of having one’s own, genetic child. Cancer survivors are often told by physicians, family, and well-meaning friends that they should be glad to be alive. Their pain at being infertile is dismissed as ingratitude. But many people see having a child as a very concrete way of defeating death and leaving a part of oneself for the future. Many men and women grow up assuming they will be parents one day. For a couple, that longed-for child was to be the blending of their individual strengths and the product of their love. Mental health professionals who treat infertile couples often point out that it is difficult for them to grieve adequately or to get true understanding and support from family and friends because what has been lost is potential, rather than an actual child. The loss is no less real, however. (Schover LR, 2005)
In order to make informed decisions about childbearing, you need to ask questions and get thorough, understandable answers. Start off by asking yourself the following questions, and then consult a medical professional at a comprehensive follow-up clinic to get an honest evaluation of your individual situation.
Questions to ask yourself before considering having children:
Am I in a stable relationship and do we both want children? Not having children is a choice made by many couples, with or without a cancer history.
Am I experiencing any anxiety about the health of my future children? The next section discusses health of offspring, and for the vast majority of survivors, the news is very encouraging.
Am I worried about my ability to physically carry a child? Pregnancy places additional stresses on the heart and lungs. If you received anthracycline drugs (doxorubicin, daunorubicin, idarubicin, or mitoxantrone) or lung, heart, or uterine radiation, you may have a higher risk for pregnancy complications. Prior to pregnancy, obtain expert advice about your actual risks so you can make an informed decision. If you do have any increased risk, get obstetrical care from a specialist in high-risk pregnancies during your pregnancy.
If I wait to try to get pregnant, will I have problems conceiving? Much is known about risks to fertility from various treatments. Opinions from your caregivers will be about risks to groups of survivors, not you as an individual. Fertility is a complicated matter, and your healthcare provider will consider your type of cancer, age at diagnosis, your gender, and your treatment. Keep in mind that you are getting an educated opinion (or two), but not having your future told. The honest answer is that knowledgeable healthcare providers can give you their best guess, but no one can accurately predict your future.
If I am infertile, what technologies are available to help me become pregnant? Donor sperm, donor eggs, in vitro fertilization, and surrogate mothers are methods of reproduction for infertile survivors. To find out about the most up-to-date techniques available, contact Livestrong Fertility https://www.livestrong.org or RESOLVE at www.resolve.org.
What are the costs of the various options—adoption, infertility treatments— and how will they be financed?
Would we rather adopt a baby, go through infertility treatments, or choose not to have children? Spend time talking over your priorities before making these important decisions. Consulting a mental health professional with experience helping couples cope with infertility may help you clarify your feelings and sort out your options. Infertility clinics in your area or your oncologist can provide the names of skilled therapists.
Explore whether there are local support groups for infertile couples in your area. Sharing experiences and talking over your situation with others can yield understanding and empathy you may not get from family or friends.
Health of Offspring and Genetics Counseling/Testing
Cancer survivors often worry about the health of their future children. They are afraid that a child conceived after surgery, radiation, or chemotherapy might be born with serious or life-threatening health problems. They also sometimes wonder if they could pass on their cancer genetically to their children.
The results of studies looking at the rate of birth defects in children born to childhood cancer survivors are very encouraging. In general, children born to survivors are just as healthy as those born to people who never had cancer. Health care providers should initiate discussions with young adult survivors contemplating having children regarding any concerns over health of their offspring and possible infertility options and refer to fertility counseling or genetic counseling/testing when appropriate.
Certain risk groups do require close monitoring during pregnancy such as those who received pelvic radiation or received drugs that can damage the heart.
A study of 4,699 children of 1,128 male and 1,627 female childhood cancer survivors provided strong evidence that the children of cancer survivors are not at significantly increased risk for congenital abnormalities resulting from their parents’ cancer treatments (Signorello LB, 2011). This was encouraging news for the survivors treated in the 1970s and 1980s. Results about the effects of newer treatment protocols will unfold over the next 2 decades as survivors reach adulthood, marry or enter committed relationships, and have children.
Physical changes in the bodies of some female Wilms tumor survivors can cause health problems in offspring. Women who had abdominal or pelvic radiation may have a uterus that does not expand well during pregnancy. This can cause spontaneous abortion (miscarriage), low-birthweight infants, and a higher rate of babies who die in the uterus or soon after birth. Any pregnant survivor with a history of radiation that included the uterus should be followed by an expert in high-risk pregnancies.
Pregnancy is a stress on the heart, so if you were treated with drugs that can weaken the heart (see Chapter 13, Heart and Blood Vessels), you should have your heart evaluated prior to pregnancy and be cared for by a specialist who can monitor your heart during pregnancy and labor.
Genetics counseling and testing
Our knowledge about cancer predisposition syndromes continues to grow every year. We know that certain types of cancers are more often associated with a cancer predisposition, such as retinoblastoma, hereditary retinoblastoma, hepatoblastoma, familial adenomatous polyposis, and rare tumors like adrenal cortical carcinoma and Li-Fraumeni Syndrome (clusters of different types of cancers such as breast cancer, leukemia, brain tumors, and sarcomas in a family). Other cancers are not as likely to be caused by an inherited mutation unless you have a family history. For example, neuroblastoma and most types of leukemia are less likely to be caused by an inherited genetic mutation, unless you have a family member diagnosed with a similar cancer.
If you are one of the survivors whose family history puts you at higher risk for having a child with health problems, you might want to consider genetic counseling and possibly genetic testing. Prior to the testing, take steps to protect the confidentiality of the information. One way to do this is to learn about the Genetic Information Nondiscrimination Act (GINA), a federal law passed in 2008 to limit disclosure of genetic information without your permission. Consumer factsheets about GINA are available at www.ginahelp.org.
Genetic counseling is a multi-step process with several sessions during which a genetic counselor discusses your family history, your risks (if any), and helps guide you through the decision whether to pursue genetic testing or not. If you choose to pursue testing, a genetic counselor will also follow-up to thoroughly explain the report, what it means, any recommended medical management, and how these risks may affect future children. Your test results and counseling sessions should be confidential.
Genetic testing is a rapidly evolving field. To learn more about genetic testing for cancer, view the National Cancer Institute slide program, Gene Testing at https://www.cancer.gov/about-cancer, and Click on, Cancer Basics, then Screening. See Chapter 6, Genetic Testing and Childhood Cancer for more detail.
Finding a genetic counseling program
Make sure you go to a well-respected genetic counseling program. You can get a referral from your doctor, your nurse practitioner, or find one in your area at the website for National Society of Genetic Counselors (www.nsgc.org) Click on Find a Genetic Counselor. Various resources related to genetics are also available at www.geneticalliance.org.
Adoption
Whether to adopt children is an intensely personal decision. If you wish to adopt an infant, you may find it a difficult and time-consuming process. Choose your agency or attorney carefully to ensure that your emotional and medical situation is clearly understood. Try to put together a team that works well together to give you the best chance to adopt.
If you are open to adopting a toddler, older child, or a child of mixed-race background, the waiting time is almost always shorter. Many of these older children are healthy and well adjusted, although others have medical needs, disabilities, or emotional issues. When applying to adopt, you may face barriers from agencies based on your health history. Nevertheless, many adoptive parents describe the process as worth every second once they fold their new infant or child into their family.
Domestic or international adoptions can be arranged through public or private licensed adoption agencies. Title III of the Americans with Disabilities Act prohibits agencies from discriminating against cancer survivors based solely on their cancer history. They must consider applicants on an individual basis. You can also arrange adoptions privately through an attorney.
Home study and your medical history
During the adoption process, a home study is done by the agency involved. This study will require a medical exam by the prospective parents’ physicians. Make sure your doctor explains your medical history in an honest yet positive way and stresses the length of time you have been off treatment and your current health status.
Table of Contents
All Guides- Acknowledgements
- Contributors
- Foreword
- Preface
- 1. Survivorship
- 2. Emotions
- 3. Relationships
- 4. Navigating The System
- 5. Staying Healthy
- 6. Genetic Testing And Childhood Cancer
- 7. Diseases
- 8. Fatigue
- 9. Brain And Nerves
- 10. Hormone-Producing Glands
- 11. Eyes And Ears
- 12. Head And Neck
- 13. Heart And Blood Vessels
- 14. Lungs
- 15. Kidneys, Bladder, And Genitals
- 16. Liver, Stomach, And Intestines
- 17. Immune System
- 18. Muscles And Bones
- 19. Skin, Breasts, And Hair
- 20. Subsequent Malignancies
- About The Editors
